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Self Love + Ritual
Self-love. Self-love seems so unattainable, doesn’t it? With a world full of social media and trends- our universe has made it practically impossible to be your true self. We are always wishing for what we don’t have, a smaller waistline, wavier hair, less jiggle to our wiggle, a little less “chub rub,” or more. Maybe you envy the girl with the curvy body who totally rocks that pixie cut. Or maybe what you want falls somewhere else on the wide spectrum of the rockin’ goddess-like bodies all around us. (Because, like it or not, you are in fact a brilliantly beautiful sparkling goddess..)
I want you to really think back on your life, how you’ve grown, or changed. I know as a young lady and into my teens, I was nothing but degrading to myself. All I saw were my flaws. My butt was too big, my hips too wide. I was aware of every hair that would not stay in place, every pimple, obsessed with it, thinking that’s all other people could see.
I wasn’t always kind or modest, despite my insecurities. It was exhausting trying to fit in, and defend myself, when I probably didn’t have to. So much time wasted. Ridiculous, isn’t it ?
As, I have matured, I am still not all-knowing and wise. But what I do know is this: I have come a long way. I still break out and have scars, my chub rub still wears holes in my pants, and I have a large collection of str
etch marks (thank you motherhood). There is so much more jiggle to my wiggle, but man, I like me so much more then I used to. Sure I still have my, “I’m fat and old,” days. But more often I feel sad for the beautiful little girl I once was. I beat myself up for years, and for what? NOTHING.
I know this is a bit of a rant. But how many people do this to themselves? Not just women. I also know that many people never come out of this mindset. But seriously, look at yourself, take care of yourself. Become your own biggest fan. Who cares what everyone else thinks? I dare you to love yourself. Forgive yourself for being so hard.
Besides that I want you to remind yourself of all that you’re capable of. What you have done, and can do. ‘Cause lady, (or man) I bet you have a lot of things to be proud of. Then work on loving yourself, accept your mistakes- and all the things that make you one of a kind, you beautiful soul, you.
Watch this video, it changed my life.
Here is a Love Yourself Ritual.
You Need:
- A Photo of yourself
- 8 Images of things or people that represent how you want to feel
- Supporting Crystals or Candles or Herbs
Place the photo of yourself in the center and create a circle around it with the other images. You can do this on a table or adhere them to a surface to hang on a wall. Light a candle with intention to bring a specific feeling to some area of your life. Go around the circle counterclockwise and forgive whatever has been in the way of you bringing that feeling to your life. Then, go around the circle
clockwise and envision yourself feeling the way that you want to feel with each image, calling in that energy. At the end state the following or a variation of the following:
“Through this act I shall heal and invite the love I want to feel. I call in love from below and above. And so it is.”
Leave these images where you can see them, take a photo with your phone and keep it as the wallpaper so that you see it often, or turn it into a crystal grid. Keep working the
magic until you Love How You Feel in the desired area of your life.
Casting your own magic spells takes skill and patience and isn’t recommended in most cases. I provide these “do it yourself” spells for educational purposes, but it is strongly recommended that you consult an experienced spell caster such as myself and allow me to do the work for you.
This way you know it’s being done by someone experienced and knowledgeable and I’m also always here to answer questions about your casting and provide follow-up at no additional charge.
This energy clearing will eliminate the negative energy in your body and aura, that was built up as a result of health-related issues and other trauma.
Remember that YOU are your own most magical tool and YOU can control your intentions just as much as you can control your expectations.
Make today, and every day, a magical one. Blessed be my Darkling’s.
Want to find out what your Astrological Horscope Forecast for the year is?.
If you want to know what is happening for each month, astrologically speaking, I make a Monthly Forecast, so you can navaigate yourself through the stars. You can always find this information in my group on Face book. Join The Lighthouse Group on Facebook. (Always under the Announcement tab.)
Check out some of my other Blogs, on Journaling, Journaling, Grounding & Shadow Work, Shadow Work, Shadow work: Steps to emotional Healing .
I also provide Protection DIY Kits & Spell Kits. Email me for more information.
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